One thing that is often overlooked by society, is the impact pet loss can have on a person's daily life, specifically for the elderly
For some old age people, their pet may be their only source of companionship. Many elderly people will live alone and have some degree of mobility issues, some will be completely house bound. Even though pets cannot talk back, having them with you when you would otherwise be alone, provides a sense of security and prevents loneliness. They can give love, motivation and physical affection. The loss of this can have a huge effect on a person's mental health and many old age people are reluctant to get another pet following a loss as they fear the new pet may outlive them. This can cause anxiety about the future of the new pet following their passing. We've had many clients worrying that it is "selfish" of them to consider getting a new pet
Animals can also provide the elderly with the motivation to keep up with physical and social activities. If they have a pet, then they have get up in the morning to feed and or walk that pet. This means their mobility is kept going but also the social aspect as they will get to interact with other dog walkers/neighbours. The loss of this daily routine can often mean people become isolated at home, as they no longer have the reason to leave the house
So if you or someone you know if struggling with the grief of losing a pet, please remember that it's important to stay connected with people. There is no shame in struggling with pet loss and talking about it with family, friends or support services can often help dealing with the grieving process. Asking for support mentally or physically can help relieve this burden you are facing. Also remember that the grieving process looks different for everyone and can also take longer for some people
